How to Manage with Your Doctor - A Guide for the Unvaccinated.

As awareness of vaccine damage becomes more prevalent, I see a growing number of young and new parents hesitant to take their children and themselves to their family physician for fear of having to face conflict over their decision not to vaccinate. This leaves parents very vulnerable in the face of a medical emergency. They rightly fear doctors and nurses will treat them and their child with disdain, some even going out of their way to vaccinate their child without consent.

Perhaps ultimately less doctor visits will lead to greater health outcomes overall, but until physicians return to a more holistic and patient-centred care model, many of us still have to live with the old one. And while Robert Kennedy Jr. is gathering unprecedented support, beyond what most of us could ever have wished for in our decades-long fight against the greed of pharmaceutical dominance over our children's health, we mothers still have to deal with strep throat and impetigo.

At best, you have a doctor who genuinely cares, but at worst, you are simply a health provider's number, and for insurance purposes, you have to be monitored, checked, and injected so protocol boxes can be ticked off. And this is where many new moms encounter their first internal conflict around medical interventions. Suddenly, it's no longer just about you. This potential life inside you is entirely your responsibility, and how would you live with yourself if a medical decision you made negatively impacted the health of that infant and child in your care?

What if I Do and what if I Don't?

These are the thoughts that plague the expecting mom, usually at four in the morning as she rolls over to tuck a pillow between her legs to take some weight off her spine. Though these anxieties carry well into motherhood, they are heightened during pregnancy and early childhood parenting when our infants and toddlers are most vulnerable. This uncertainty is used by the pharmaceutical marketing conglomerates and advertising agencies to emotionally bully and coerce us into using their products, from Johnson & Johnson's carcinogenic baby powder, to vaccines containing immune inducing adjuvants (that's how they work).

Medical doctors are surprisingly naive, and they are extremely busy. They don't study sales and marketing; they study biology and pharmacology. They trust the 'education' provided to them by their medical schools and by industry-sponsored seminars — who better than the drug company to explain the actions of their new product? And their innate trust in medical publications blinds them to the sinister nature of the industry. Who would have imagined that the underbelly of a health science industry, as (seemingly) solid and trustworthy as the medical industry, could be so corrupt? Doctors are often the last to believe it.

How Do You Educate Your Doctor ?

In two words, you don't. It is not your job to educate your doctor. You do not have the time, the skills, the information, or the knowledge on tap to change the foundations of their entire professional belief systems in a fifteen-minute consultation. You will only invoke a defensive response if you embark on a conversation about adjuvants, ingredients, nutrition, neurotoxins, environmental toxins, and natural immunity. In all likelihood, they will dismiss you as a conspiracy theorist and make you feel insecure. Doctors are inherently intelligent, and your suggestion undermines the whole foundation of their entire belief system—a house of cards they cannot let you destroy, especially during a consultation, when they are supposed to be the authority. And with a sick child in your care, you are too vulnerable to go into battle at this time. Reserve your energy for healing yourself and your family. The cat is well out of the bag now, and eventually, they will come around in a less combative and ego-shattering process.

So What Do You Do?

Doctors are good at diagnosing disease - use them for this. If your child has a strange rash, a sprain or fracture, an infection, or an ongoing chronic issue, a decent doctor, (with a decent medical search engine), should be able to give you an almost correct diagnosis. Keep in mind that the 'itis' bit at the end of any word simply means 'inflammation'. So tonsilitis means inflamed tonsils, gastritis means inflammation of the gastric lining and bronchitis means inflamation of the bronchial tubes. It's not rocket science, it's just the Latin name for 'your child is coughing,' but you already knew that, didn't you? They've been coughing for three weeks. However, it is good to know if something more sinister than a common childhood infection is suspected, your doctor might pick it up and send for further investigation.

Get the diagnosis and accept the prescription for antibiotics they will inevitably give you, along with a cough suppressant full of sweeteners and flavor. Say thank you and leave. You may decide to, but you are not obligated to fill the prescription.

Remember, Your Doctor Works for You

If you pay for medical insurance, your doctor works for you. If the state pays, they still work for you. Keep that in mind when your doctor or medical staff are trying to intimidate or convince you to do something you don't want to do. You are the parent. You have the power in any given moment to say no and leave. If your doctor is bullying, intimidating, or invalidating your decision and putting pressure on you to agree to an intervention you are not certain about, remember you are in control. If you refuse to accept their recommendations, they will record it. But that works both ways. If they refuse to do a test you specifically request, you can instruct them to put that in their records too. Step into your power as a parent, and be assertive. You're a mom now. Your job is to advocate for your child not to please your doctor. You can be pleasant, respectful, civilized and assertive.

Skills for difficult Impasses

We presume our doctors know more than we do when it comes to biology and pharmacology, but that doesn't mean they know more than we do about our child's health. If your doctor is insisting on giving an invasive procedure such as a vaccine, buy yourself time. Keep in mind that the vaccine schedule is the schedule of a business model—insufficiently tested, lobby-driven, and highly corrupted. It is not your schedule, it's not even your doctor's schedule, and it is certainly not your baby's. You have all the time in the world to think about it, to research, to better understand your decisions and choices. You can always do it later, but you can't undo it.

Create a position statement and stick to it. The conversation may go like this:

Doc says, "You must get the vaccinations according to the CDC or APA recommended childhood schedule."

You reply, "Thank you, I'm going to think about it, and I will decide and let you know."

Doc says, "I won't accept children in my practice who aren't vaccinated."

You reply, "I understand. I'm going to think about it, and I will decide and let you know."

Doc says, "Don't take a chance with your child's health. We are living in a different world today; viruses are rampant. Measles can cause encephalitis, and whooping cough kills thousands of infants every year (he forgets to say in third world countries). You are putting your whole community at risk by making irresponsible choices."

You reply, "I hear what you are saying. I'm going to think about it, and I will decide and let you know."

Repeating the same sentence three times, works. With spouses, with employees and with children too.

In-source Your Power

Our disconnect from nature has led us down a path to consumerism, petro-plastics , pharmaceutical dependency and quick fix solutions. It is imperative that your children spend time in nature and come to understand the life cycle of plants, of animals, and of the earth elements. It is important that they walk barefoot on the grass, in the woods, and on the beach. That they come to know that the body speaks to us and that healing takes time. If we spend too much time indoors, watching screens, covered in cosmetics, having our nails done, our hair colored, and running from appointment to appointment with our technology attached, as we do, we risk bleeding out all our power and then in a frazzled and depleted state we plug in wherever is easiest.

Mothers love to rush to the doctor. It makes us feel important and responsible. We are quick to outsource our power to an authority even when we know their protocosl do not align with our beliefs. This is a major disconnect we have as women in the world today, and it requires an adjustment. The way to return to our grounded, knowing nature is to spend more time in nature.

Not so we wont take our child to the doctor in a medical emergency, but rather so we will understand better how to differentiate. Time in nature strengthens our intuitive muscle, our all knowing inner authority, so we can discern between a fever that needs treating and one that doesnt, or a rash that needs soothing or one that needs medical treatment.Time in nature puts us back in touch with the wisdom of that old wise aunt who lives in the forest and knows about spider bites. Or with the voice of your grandmother who advised giving an extra dose of cod liver oil for a week, during illness, for that's what she was treated with by an old-school family physician or local village medicine woman when she was a child.

This is not outsourcing our power; this is in-sourcing, knowing who to turn to in our communities, sniffing out the wisdom. We used to rely on old mothers and aunts for this kind of direction, but the connections to the natural order have been so violently severed that today the mothers trust the pharmacutical medical complex more than their daughters. We need to find our way back.

Wise Medicine

Unfortunately, the vaccine, pharmaceutical, and advertising industries have destroyed generations of trust in healing and medicinal wisdom, but the tide is turning. In his lectures at the Academy of Classical Homeopathy, master homeopath George Vithoulkas talks about a time on the Greek Islands when longevity and health were significantly longer and better, before there was a pharmacy and a doctor in every small village to 'itis' and suppress every ache and pain. We need to restore this integrity into our communities again.

Traditional medical systems such as Ayurveda, Chinese Medicine, and plant medicines offer excellent alternatives. Homeopathy offers a refined medicine that respects the delicacy and complexity of our biochemistry, making the tiniest adjustments, which reset the body's own vital life force and set it back onto a path of healing. Other modalities like Shiatsu, Iyengar Yoga, Craniosacral Osteopathy, and Chiropractic medicine offer powerful and subtle adjustments to the structure, to the flow of fluid, the movement of fascia, the strengthening or softening of the muscles, and to the vitality of the organs, opening up our emotional blocks and exploring the places in our psyche where we are stuck and holding, and directing us back towards understanding our whole selves and our relationship to nature.

If you fortify yourself with a holistic practitioners, who support your fundamental beliefs about health and medical freedom, you may be able to avoid your family physician for years. And as your strengthen yourself as a parent, you will eventually come to a place where you are no longer intimidated by doctors or the establishment from which they arise. Rather you will be able to use it for what it excels in: diagnostics, emergency and critical care, surgery, and specialist medications and technological interventions.

And you will know, that there are hundreds of solutions nature and holistic practitioners have to offer for your child's cough, and that a vaccination is not one of them.

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Rebecca Bermeister is a certified Classical Homeopath available for online consultations from her clinic in Zichron Yaakov, Israel.

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